Our family has some really fun Thanksgiving traditions. On Thanksgiving morning while mom is busy in the kitchen, I gather the kids and make apple turkeys, which are proudly displayed on the dinner table. We also try to have the Christmas lights up outside so that they can be turned on Thanksgiving night, ushering in the Christmas season. If you have some fun traditions for Thanksgiving, click the comments link below to add yours to the list.

Last week, Julie and I attended the funeral of the 15 month old daughter of a friend and colleague. This friend and one of his friends were digging a pit in his backyard into which they were to sink a trampoline. As the friend who was driving the truck loaded with dirt taken out of the hole, he accidentally and tragically backed over his friends little 15-month old toddler who had wandered over unseen. Our friend, the child's father, attempted first aid and CPR while emergency crews were called, but the little girl died en route to the hospital. My friend Gary and his wife Amber were clearly distraught, but were remarkable examples of faith as they and their remaining four children began the grieving process. Our hearts go out to them and to all their sorrowing family and friends.

As we considered this tragedy, I thought it might be well in my blog to share some resources for parents, friends and others who might find themselves in a situation where they might offer help, healing and perspective.

Talking to Children About Tragedies
Coping With the Death of a Child
After The Death Of A Child
Buddy's Candle
The Grieving Garden: Living with the Death of a Child