Despite our best efforts and preparations, our children will not always behave as they should. Correcting that inappropriate behavior in a setting with company involved can be a little overwhelming for both children and parents. Here are a few recommendations:
- Remove the child from an inappropriate situation right away.Don't wait for the behavior to escalate.
- Discipline in private.Go into another room and speak privately and quietly. Often in group settings, the behavior will be motivated by a desire for attention. And disciplining in public will only exacerbate the problem.
- Be clear about expectations and consequences.Identify clearly the behavior which was inappropriate and how you expect the situation to be handled. Be firm in your comments so that you are understood.
- Be a little understanding.Things are disrupted for the children; have options available which will encourage better behavior in the group while still allowing an outlet for the childhood energy. A few games, some things to do outside and some field trips to child friendly places like the zoo, a children's museum and so forth will go a long way.
Conclusion
Part of what a parent should do with their children is build positive memories. Having houseguests can be a source of positive memories if the children are prepared for the experience and if there are opportunities for memorable interaction. A little preparation goes a long way to making holiday visits positive and memorable.
