The Bottom Line
A wonderful resource for fathers (and mothers) in the process of divorce and working to rebuild a secure life for their children.
Pros
- Focuses on kids and their issues
- Explains the challenges of divorce
- Age specific recommendations
Cons
- Not the easiest read; will take time
Description
- Offers specific guidance for navigating the three major challenges of divorce
- Looks at divorce as a process rather than an event
- Reminds us all that children are the most important consideration in a divorce process
Guide Review - What About the Kids?
Authors Judith Wallenstein and Sandra Blakeslee take the posture that we have to remember that we are always parents, whether or not we are married to our children’s mother or father. They explore the three major challenges of divorce: (1) restoring yourself and finding personal equilibrium, (2) preparing and supporting your children through the breakup, and (3) creating a new relationship between you and your ex-partner. Through each of these challenges, the children play a pivotal role.
What About the Kids? offers valuable insights and make solid recommendations for helping your children adjust to their new family situation as it evolves during and after a divorce.
